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Perhaps I shouldn't say this, but I'm rather content. I already have everything. I'm not wealthy, but I have a good life without any need for extras. My former relationships have not been the best, but now I'm settled being singel and don't want to hunt anymore: So I thought until recent. Now, more, and more my soul craves company; of a woman to share thoughts with, and every day life, and most of all: Tenderness, trust, and gentle strokes at each other chins. The noise, and comfort from that knowing someone's sleeping at your side who you can trust, and then, when morning comes; eyes to meet, a sleepy face to kiss, messy hair to strike behind the ears, and a neck to kiss.

And one morning I thought: If someone, with the right features, wants me, I won't be reluctant.

Something about me and the life I'm living:

Professionally I am a selfemployed art historian producing courses and lecture on that topic. This is something I really enjoy, not only because it's about art, being on the stage satisfies my spontanious creativity; very often the lecture is partly created as it is performed with unprecedented turns, and twists, and this stimulates me intellectually, and socially. It doesn't bring much money, but I go around. My richness lies in what I gathered through the years, and who I am, with my intellect, adventoureness, creativity. and wit.

But, I'm not a nerd, completely focused on the arts. I like to be with friends; mending and driving my beautiful cars, and sailing the boat; spending time at the summer house.

My taste is refined, and listen both to well produced rock and classical, as opera. Fashion, design and estethical questions intrigues me, which also includes the art of words, their values, tone and rythm used in prose and poetry.

I have a very sweet, intelligent and gentle 17 year old daughter staying with me every two weeks. We live in the center of Stockholm near the water in a small apartment with two bedrooms, a living room and a very nice bath room, which I've designed myself. The summer I spend mostly at the summer house, two hours from town, and near the water with a bridge suitable for boating, and swimming. I really miss a feminine companion to share all my resources, otherwise it's really a waste. Welcome to join my paradise!

Dearest ladies,

Due to the flood of mail and virtual kisses it's time to clear things out:

1) I can't get children, and I don't want you to bring me your own.

A decision that I wanted to spend the rest of my life taking care only about myself, and you of course (in an adult manner), as my daughter finally grows up, I went through a sterilization a couple of years ago.

So don't waste our time starting a communication with me, if you want children of own.

The only family I can offer is what I've already described above. My 16 years old daughter, Amanda.

2) You must support yourself financially, and be mentally grown up; if you had a miserable childhood, with a failing father, for instance, there's a risk that you're not looking for a man, but your father.

I can't be your father!

So, I want a woman who is honest with herself and me, able to reflect over life and our possibilities and confinements.
You may be complicated, as I am, but not in a destructive way. Two complicated psyches should find the stimulation to develop and grow together (the Scandinavian word for loving, älska, means growing together).

I also believe in equality and balance: You must be self confident and self supportive. I want you to have your own identity, something to do and eventually your own income.

I am strictly monogamous in a relationship, and with the ambition to be together in that state for the rest of the life. Perhaps overambitious and old fashioned, but that's the way I am. I don't tolerate infidelity.

If you agree to these conditions you will find total devotion from a very passionate, humorous, intelligent, and creative lover and friend.