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Hey how you doing? My name is Jay.I've put alot of thought to this so you know I mean every word I say. I believe there is always a way to improve yourself in one form or another. I was brought up to believe that as a man your word and your actions are what defines you as a man, and I try to live that way on a daily basis. I believe when you make a mistake you gotta own up to it, also I believe that when you make promises you keep them...but you don't break your principles. I love to have fun & joke around, play golf & softball, watch sports... you know guy stuff, I am a bit of a poet, a wiseass, If you respect me I'll respect you. I'll always tell you the truth. Can't stand liars and cheaters. I'm not into playing games. I'm at a point in my life where all I want is the real thing. Every day I try to be a better man and father and hope that being good at one will make me better at the other.

First and foremost she has to love and be good with children because I have 3 kids who are my whole world. She has to be up for anything because I always am, all except for trying new food but that's a whole nother matter. She has to have a big heart, be sweet, fun loving, I am very spontainious!!!!! So she has to keep up.... but in the same sense she has to know when it's time just to chill out and soak in what life has to offer.